It’s that time of the year, lovelies, isn’t it? If you’re anything like me, the end of the year is about
First of all, I wish you a Happy New Year! May 2018 bring everything you desire and much more. Now, let’s slip into something more comfy, create the mood, light a candle, prepare your favorite drink and put some chillout music. It’s time to put pen to paper: 2018, here we come with our new year’s resolutions!
Babe, Be Kind To Yourself
Dear sugar baby, I know that sometimes self-doubt might creep in. We women tend to overthink and overanalyze. It’s ok. You’re more than beautiful! You’re a complex human being and remember this: true love starts with self-love. Once you’ve got that figured out, everything else will be less important.
Appreciate your body. Hit the gym because it will make you feel stronger in your body and in your mind. There’s no need to focus on what could be improved. Losing weight to finally fit in a smaller size won’t bring you more happiness. You know what will make you prouder of yourself? Feeling that you are worthy for who you are in this very instant. So, be kind to yourself, appreciate who you are and what you’ve accomplished up to this point. Be grateful for the kind of lifestyle you are leading!
Prioritize and Organize
For a sugar baby, time is of the essence. You have a lot to juggle with: sugar daddy, career, family, friends, hobbies. Unless you get good at organizing your schedule, it will be difficult to get everything done in an easy, yet efficient way. Not to mention that your sugar daddy is probably someone on a tight schedule!
For 2018, get a planner, one of those fabulous ones with motivational messages and color codes for each appointment. It will not only help you prioritize, but it will also put you in a good mood every time you’ll read an uplifting quote.
Make Real Connections
Human beings are wired for connection. As a sugar baby, a relationship with your daddy can only work long-term if you have chemistry. Surely, maybe long-term is not what you’re after. Regardless of your sugar arrangement, create space for friendships and those people who are closest to you. In times of hardship, they will be the ones supporting you. Plus, when you feel emotionally attuned, it will be a pleasure for your daddy and other people to be around you.
Live Life on Your Terms
People tend to think they can have opinions on anything. Well, I don’t know if you disclosed to your dear ones that you’re a sugar baby, but even if you did, even if you didn’t, I think you’re still experiencing people having pieces of advice on how you should be living your life. Listen to them, it makes them feel appreciated, but don’t automatically take them at their word.
Baby, this is your life. It’s you who’s in charge. So, make your decisions based on what feels good, what brings fulfillment to you. Don’t lead a life pleasing others. I bet your sugar daddy will appreciate an independent woman who thinks for herself while caring for him and listening to his needs.
Expect Nothing but the Best
Carve a positive mindset. Surely, the world is not only sunshine and rainbows, but admit it, you’ve got it going on pretty good. So, why think anything else than the fact that things will get even better from here on?
2018 will be your best year yet. I’m sure of that. Now, go make magic happen!